Ok, so I did some calling, and the spacers in the first kit, you can just compress the spring and not have to take the whole assembly apart, and they have them available for my truck. He said with a 2" kit, you wouldn't need shocks, as long as you weren't offroading, which I don't plan on doing to much since it's a 2wd.
So I think I'm going to order the 2" kit, and after I get in, and see what it looks like I'll eventually order some longer Bilstein 5100's, because I'm sure my shocks are getting a little tired anyway