so she came by today. "are you the owner of the blue truck? OMG, i'm so sorry, OMG it was raining that night and OMG i feel so bad is it real bad anything i can do to.....blah blah blah, yea we just moved in my husband is returning from deployment, blah blah, OMG i'm so sorry, its a stick so...blah...." thats pretty much what she said. i just said, next time let me know when it happens immediately, rain or not. case closed