Yup... we're spending too much money to do this wrong, so I want to make sure we're set for at least the next 10 years. Kids are currently 6, 5, 3 and 1 year old; this needs to be the last tow/family hauler I buy. Will take at least 5 years to pay off, go another 5 without payments, don't want to buy another SUV if I can prevent it so I can retire it at about 200k miles and get back in a pickup truck once the kids are older. Will only see about 12k/year (less if I don't sell the Jeep), hence I'm looking for 2010+, ideally with 50-75k miles.
The lift & tires will go on by next spring to support our OBX summer vacation. Then I might rent a tow behind travel trailer for a long weekend or two, both testing out the camper size prior to purchasing and seeing if any performance mods are required. Camper purchase will likely be the following year.