A moderate street cam and a good set of long tube headers sound like an excellent idea.
Shorties wouldn't even by on my list for consideration.
Long tubes or keep the stock manifolds.
A turbo setup is going to increase the power a lot.
Upgraded transmission cooler is also a good idea.
You may want to also check into an oil cooler if you are going to be running it hard.
Who built the trans?
Was it built for performance?
If so, it probably already ahs a shift kit in it, but..if not...
A good quality "SHIFT KIT" would probably do wonders for the longevity of the transmission.
The reason I mentioned line pressure, is that a moderate increase will reduce the amount of time it takes to completely go from one gear to another gear.
The entire time it is actually SHIFTING GEARS...it is slipping when coming out of one gear and slipping going into the next gear.
This generates a lot of heat, especially when you are increasing the HP over stock.
A shift kit will take care of a lot of that.
I am sure that you know this already...but...
When it shifts from 1st to 2nd...the bands and clutches start to DISENGAGE from 1st gear.
At the same time, the bands and clutches start to ENGAGE for 2nd gear...the entire time, as it is going from one gear to the next...it is slipping, generating heat and causing wear on the bands and clutches.
The more power the more slippage and heat.
Making it shift QUICKER and FIRMER will reduce the slippage accordingly.
On the other hand...you don't want it just BANGING into gear every time it changes either.
That will also break parts due to the SHOCK of making it just BANG into the next gear.
It is also not very enjoyable to drive one on the street that shifts TOO HARD.
BTDT...didn't like it.
One more thing...don't overlook the extra heat generated by the torque converter when POWER BRAKING it before a run.